Archive for March, 2012

World Brooklyn – Ideas for Raising Citizens of Tomorrow

Thursday, March 29th, 2012

I’m getting ready to go back to NYC, this time to serve as the speaker for World Brooklyn on March 31, at 1 pm., to take place at Brooklyn Friends School.  The day’s theme is: Ideas for Raising Citizens of Tomorrow, and the question organizers pose is: How do you bring the world to your child and bring your child to the world?

It’s a great question, and particularly for wonderful Brooklyn, where so many cultures come together in one packed community.  The world has already, famously, come to them.  So, some people in the area have justifiably asked: “Why do I need to go to this? We’re already global; that’s something for other communities.”

In response, one of the wise Brooklyn “global” educators responded:

I have the feeling that most of us believe that because we are exposing our children to a second or third language, we are raising our kids globally. This is not realistic, in my opinion! Being global transcends social boundaries and cultures. Through the addition of another language, we are expanding our children’s brain’s agility and being exposed to another culture, but we are certainly not raising global children.

So my queston is: what does it mean to be global in NYC? Can the same definition be applied to communities in France, England, South Africa, Beijing…

Even if you live in a highly diverse community, does that automatically make you a “friend to the whole human race?”  Is this diversity reflected among your friends and weekly interactions and experiences? Is there an authentic, natural relationship that you and your children build with the “world” that lives alongside you?  And how do you guard against acquiring an elitist attitude that might come from your multi-lingual, cosmopolitan life?  This is the opposite challenge for most of the rest of the United States, which is part of what makes Brooklyn so special; but like one who has a great talent, she needs to be aware that the gift doesn’t become a source of arrogance or a barrier to really growing and serving the world by using that natural gift to benefit a greater good.

These are big and mysterious questions – I look forward to kicking these around much more!

For Trayvon – We Are One Family

Thursday, March 22nd, 2012

Today is the start of a New Year, coming a day after Naw Ruz, the first day of spring in the Persian, Zoroastrian and Bahai calendars.  Sophia and I started the year in honor of slain Trayvon Martin.  At 8 years old, she thought it was important that we take this picture.  Yesterday was the Million Hoodie March, and the under-the-radar International Day for the Elimination of Racial Discrimination.  My friend Liz Dwyer wrote eloquently, powerfully and personally about this horrible injustice for GOOD.is in “Trayvon Martin Could Have Been One of My Kids.”  And black parents all over the U.S. are feeling really worried about letting their boys outside to do anything.

Our skin doesn’t have to have the same pigment as Trayvon’s, nor do I need to be the mother of boys to care deeply about this.  All the talk I do about global citizenship translates into an important principle: we are one human family.  If we are one family, then Trayvon’s unnecessary death is all of our problem – he could have been one of my kids, too. This makes it hit closer to home, and it should. One good I can take from the tragedy: I see him as a martyr for racial healing, and am grateful that the conversation is taking place all over the country, and all over the internet.  Perhaps this New Year will mark the turning point for racial justice, solidarity, and oneness. I hope so.

It’s Not Black or White: The Teachable Moments in #KONY2012

Tuesday, March 20th, 2012

I shared my thoughts on the KONY2012 viral video and the polarizing debate on Tony Jackson’s Asia Society Global Learning blog at Education Week, here, and I’ve pasted the full piece below.  I’m gratified to hear that high school teachers are using the framework and questions I’ve outlined with students. If we can take the episode and learn from all sides, then do something, that could be a win-win for many.

It’s Not Black or White: The Teachable Moments in #KONY2012

“Like so many parents of a child with a Facebook account, I learned about Joseph Kony within hours of Invisible Children’s KONY2012 internet film release from my indignant teen-age daughter who promptly changed her profile picture in support of the campaign.  These days that’s about the cause equivalent of going “Facebook official” in a romantic relationship, proclaiming your commitment to the world.

The next day I gave a talk to faculty and staff at a school in New York City.  In the context of educating global citizens with competencies for the 21st Century, I brought up the power of teaching with social media to integrate their digital lives with their school learning, and mentioned the viral example of #KONY2012, fresh in my mind.  The middle school dean’s hand shot up.  He shared that he had just been contacted by three students who wanted to discuss how their school would respond to the campaign to stop this warlord.

Thanks to millions of young people like these, the twenty-nine minute documentary about a conflict and region in the world most of its teen viewers had never heard of, became the most viral video ever made.

As the video points out, when we know, we can care.  If we don’t know about the situation, how can we care?  But knowledge also brings with it responsibility.  And skewed information targeting the emotions of kids who yearn to make a difference in the world can be dangerous.  IC’s approach in KONY2012 is far from perfect, and criticisms citing the hubris of the campaign, messy financials, strategic short-sightedness, geographic misrepresentation, and oversimplification have spurred a vigorous global debate as well as important clarification from IC leaders.

As we see, the issues aren’t so simple, like black and white.  And empowerment doesn’t flow simply from white to black.  Our children feel outrage over violence and injustice, regardless the skin color of the victims, perpetrators, negotiators, donors or activists.  Through action they can learn that compassion is distinct from pity.

As this story unfolds, we see pushback to the criticisms growing, as reflected in Nicholas Kristof’s eloquent Op-Ed.  Filmmaking has become an interactive experience, and so has viewing and reading.  Audiences can curate diverse perspectives on the story, and then create their own responses which also are dynamic.  This turns into an empowered, creative, iterative learning process ideal for today’s youth, the “digital natives.”  The adults in their lives – teachers, parents, Lady Gaga or Rainn Wilson’s Twitterfeed – can help guide, even if imperfectly.  Every criticism of the film opens a door to recognizing perspectives, investigating the world, communicating ideas and taking action – together these build the Global Competence identified by the Asia Society’s education research.  This is what 21st Century education starts to look like.

So, whether you celebrate or bemoan the viral #KONY2012, ask questions to spur powerful learning around global competencies:

  1. Recognize Perspectives: What is the local Ugandan, or broader African perspective?  Thoughtful insights and approaches have been developed from the people who have been living with this crisis, such as this former child soldier’s response here.  Watch this video response from a Ugandan blogger, Rosebell Kagumire here.  Al Jazeera English has a Kony Debate page, which includes “Uganda Speaks” spotlighting local opinions.  Afripop has compiled a list of responses by Africans here and there’s one on Boing Boing. Step back and consider: What assumptions do you make about the people shown in the video?  For example, the children in Uganda aren’t simply victims.  They are also complex, intelligent, creative, resilient, empathic, intelligent survivors.  One subtle point I appreciated in the KONY2012 film was the reference to their “friends.”  Jacob in Uganda is known to the filmmaker Jason’s young son in California as their friend.  A young American woman speaking passionately to a packed audience of peers describes “I have friends who have been living in this conflict their entire life.”  Again, they are her friends.  If we see these children as our friends, not merely as a mass of victims, how would our response differ?
  2. Communicate Ideas: Why haven’t we paid attention to those voices earlier?  Why did we notice the KONY2012 video the day it posted, but not know about a decades-long conflict?  What lessons do you take away for the next time you want to make a persuasive point?  Stay informed through media originating from Africa or elsewhere; subscribe to blogs that update the story. Participate in conversations virtually and face-to-face.
  3. Investigate the World: The war that started in Northern Uganda has spilled over to neighboring countries.  Which ones? Why? This analysis from the International Crisis Group offers a bigger picture.
  4. Take Action:  Find your best avenue for involvement, and don’t confine this to donating money.  What social impact organizations’ work are you most comfortable with?  Search Charity Navigator to learn about diverse non-profits and how they manage finances and transparency.  Then, keep talking about it. Share your ideas on your own blog, in comments on other sites, on film or through an organization you can get involved with. When young people (from anywhere) stay engaged with meaningful causes, the course of their lives shifts for the better.  But if this video stirs emotion that gets distracted with the next viral video of a dancing cat, the haters win.

      Within 48 hours my daughter removed the KONY2012 image as her profile picture.  I’m glad she’s gained a deeper sense of the complexity of the issue, but sad if she’s disillusioned.  Something had been ignited in her to take a stand for injustice, and that spark needs to be fed, not crushed. Policymakers need to know the strategic complexities, but youth can be idealistic.  I’m grateful for the documentary as well as the debate, and hope we keep talking, exploring, tweeting and sharing about these issues that really matter.

      Do you think the #StopKony campaign helps or hurts Central Africa?  What are your take-aways and teachable moments?

      Sending Off My Nervous Baby Into the World – of Standardized Testing

      Tuesday, March 13th, 2012

      I’m mad this morning.  My eight-year old (8!, yes, just 8! in third grade!) is a nervous wreck.  Today is the first day of PSSA (Pennsylvania System of School Assessment, or Pissed Students Seriously Anxious?!) Standardized testing at her school.  They’ve been prepping for weeks (or is it months?) to score stellar points on the test. She feels personally responsible to do great and not let down her beloved teacher.  They’re even allowed to break the ultimate elementary school rule and CHEW GUM IN CLASS during the test, since it’s supposed to stimulate brain activity.  One lasting lesson here: do whatever it takes to get a high score.

      The goal: so their school looks good.  So their school will come out on top – again – in public reviews that get published in multiple media outlets which drive real estate prices upwards, and keep the local tax base healthy to pay for the schools.  Fortunately, we haven’t gotten to the point where teacher evaluations are displayed publicly, like New York City, but it feels like an ominous threat.  When the Philadelphia Inquirer publishes the standardized test scores of every school district in Southeast PA and Southern NJ, you bet everyone is scanning to see how their favorites and their rivals are faring. When Newsweek and US News print their top schools and yours makes the list, officials create a large banner to hang over the school entrance, the highway overpass, and the website front page.  When the kids dominate the test, buyers target our school district and pay top dollar for a home here so their kids can attend the “top-rated” schools.  Homes in my neighborhood often sell within one week, for asking price, even during these “tough economic times.”  A friend in real estate told me that families from China are coming to their office with a million dollars in cash to look for a home in our district.  No one told this to my 8 year old, but it’s as if she’s internalized it.

      Our school district, like thousands of others in at least 36 states, has invested in an online test prep program called Study Island.  Sophia wants to practice taking tests every night now, and for about the past week, this has been her primary “homework.”  I’m ok with the quality of the program, and realize the kids need to practice how to take the test, in order to level the playing field – if others are practicing then I feel better if my child is prepared, too.  I’d rather not buy in to that thinking, but when your child attends public school, this sort of activity becomes part of the “price” we pay.  Other critiques of the test prep program are found here and here, from a teacher. I also realize that kids in some countries, like Singapore, parts of China and Korea, with some of the best test results in the world, prep even harder than ours.  But I also know that in countries like Finland, the world’s top-rated education system, such testing doesn’t occur until 12th grade, and no teachers, students or schools are judged based on standardized testing.  While the East Asians are increasingly seeking to get out of the anxiety-inducing, creativity-crushing, test-prep culture, we are looking to emulate them.

      Exacerbating matters, I found out that our Pennsylvania Governor, Tom Corbett’s “proposed 2012-13 budget calls for a 43 percent increase in funding for educational assessments, to $52 million, even as it keeps school funding generally flat and cuts spending on state-related universities.”  This also comes at a time when our school district is considering imposing fees, like a $50-$100 fee for every club a high schooler will join – an act which won’t bring in much money, but is sure to increase social isolation; and down the street, in struggling Chester-Upland schools, teachers are working without pay.

      Yay - the exam secrets revealed!

      Last night when Sophia was going to bed, she asked me, almost shaking: “mommy, can we say some prayers so I do ok on the PSSA?”  I said something like “Sure, let’s also say prayers so you feel peace in your heart.  You really don’t need to worry about the test.  You are going to do fine.  Your sisters (8 and 10 years older than her, who were among the first to experience standardized testing, before the frenzy kicked in) never prepared for the test.  They just got enough sleep, had a good breakfast, and went to school happy.  I hope you can do that.  You’re going to be great.  You’re more prepared than anyone I know!”  I don’t think I reassured her much.

      This prayer we said helped her more than my pep talk:

      O God!  Educate these children.  These children are the plants of Thine orchard, the flowers of Thy meadow, the roses of Thy garden.  Let Thy rain fall upon them; let the Sun of Reality shine upon them with Thy love.  Let Thy breeze refresh them in order that they may be trained, grow and develop, and appear in the utmost beauty.  Thou art the Giver.  Thou art the Compassionate. (From the Baha’i Prayer book)

      This is a prayer she’s been singing and saying since she was about three, and last night it took on special significance.  I hope she’ll remember the qualities of beauty, love and inspiration emphasized here. She’ll have enough worries, tests and challenges when she grows up.  For now, the education I really hope she gets emphasizes resilience, curiosity, compassion, and creativity.  These are the qualities our world so badly needs – but are tough to capture when filling in the bubbles.

      Has testing taken over at your home? How are you handling it?

       

      Mulling Over the #KONY2012 Campaign and Debate

      Friday, March 9th, 2012

      I’m sorting through my thoughts on the debate about KONY2012, prompted by the viral video made by Invisible Children (Here: KONY2012).  If Invisible Children just showed up last year and made this film I’d feel worse about their cause.  Certainly, they shouldn’t be seen as the panacea.  But they’ve been around since 2003 and they made a good film.  In my book, Growing Up Global I wrote about them in the Appendix listing hundreds of Action Steps and organizations to get to know.  Here’s an excerpt:

      Sponsor a child’s education. Even where primary education is offered for free, “hidden costs” prevent kids from attending school. These include the purchase of uniforms, shoes, school supplies like pencils, books, and paper, as well as daytime meals. They usually cost a fraction of what you’d pay in the United States, but any extra strain on a family’s budget might be enough to prohibit a
      child’s school attendance—especially a girl’s. Many organizations sponsor children through school, including: Save the Children, Plan USA, Christian Children’s Fund, and others, including those that are specific to a geographic location, like Tibet, South Africa, Cambodia, and in America. Through InvisibleChildren.com sponsor a child from northern Uganda’s war zone to pursue secondary school education. Invisible Children’s documentary film exposes the horrors of war and its impact on children, then offers a youth-oriented outlet to take action. (Growing Up Global, p. 248, emphasis added)

      I believe there are so many teachable moments from both sides of the debate.  Stay tuned.  It’s not black or white…

      What’s your take on this debate?  Please respond here or join the discussion on Facebook.


      Happy International Women’s Day! Dedicate Your Day.

      Thursday, March 8th, 2012

      I love International Women’s Day.  I remember great lectures in honor of this day in college, visiting my old hometown Fort Wayne, Indiana for their 99th annual city-wide celebration of the day, and just love the thought of a pause in the calendar to honor heroic women.  I realize everyday should be International Women’s Day, just like every day should be Mother’s Day.  But I think it’s ok that one SPECIAL day be set aside to honor women’s courage, sacrifice, effort, and ultimately, our equality with the other “wing” of the bird of humanity, our partners in making this world better: men.  And please, don’t limit this to an activity for your girls.  Our boys NEED to build this awareness – to be better men.

      Google gets in the spirit of International Women's Day, too

      One idea for today and for your families:  think of someone to dedicate your day to.  Each of you think of somebody.  She can be alive or have passed on.  Someone you know personally or only have admired from afar.  Athletic or activist.  American or not.  Celebrated or nearly-forgotten.  Women’s courage near or far, now or then has been powerful.

      Talk about this with your children.  Who do you admire?  Why?  What action can you take today as you think about them?  Maybe it’s simply helping out a friend who could use an extra hand/nudge/smile/inclusion at school, or remember to put away their things at home without being asked. Write a letter to grandma or if they’re ready, to your Congress member to remember women, or to a political prisoner through Amnesty International (or just read the powerful stories on Amnesty’s terrific website) – just to say they remember them today.  Or learn about an organization like BRAC or Tahirih Justice or UN Women or Momsrising or GirlUp or Million Moms Challenge for maternal health or countless others.  If we do this consciously, for this special day, it can mean something, and I’ll admit it – it feels good too.

      Later today you can tune in to the Livestream of The Daily Beast’s Women in the World Summit.  I’m honored to have been invited as a delegate again and hope to post and tweet updates and impressions from this awesome gathering.

      One Paragraph of Parenting Advice Might Be All We Really Need

      Wednesday, March 7th, 2012

      While the children are yet in their infancy feed them from the breast of heavenly grace, foster them in the cradle of all excellence, rear them in the embrace of bounty. Give them the advantage of every useful kind of knowledge. Let them share in every new and rare and wondrous craft and art. Bring them up to work and strive, and accustom them to hardship. Teach them to dedicate their lives to matters of great import, and inspire them to undertake studies that will benefit mankind. (Abdu’l-Baha, Selections from the Writings of Abdu’l-Baha, p. 127)

      I’ve been familiar with this quotation for years, but a friend recently forwarded it to me and i was struck by the many concepts embedded in this little paragraph.  Is there something that particularly stands out to you regarding the advice in this quotation?  For a new project which i’ll hopefully “unveil” soon, i am looking for additional pithy parenting wisdom from sacred texts or writings that have inspired and driven your parenting philosophy.  Got any to share?  I would love to hear!!