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In Honor of the White House State Dinner

Thursday, January 20th, 2011

In honor of last night’s White House State Dinner with President Hu Jintao of China, I defrosted Trader Joe’s Mandarin Orange Chicken and splurged with the Shu Mai dumplings – on a weeknight!  Silly? Yes.  But certainly less drab and a little more fun than just saying: “we’re defrosting pre-made food from the grocery store.”  While the older girls are thick in the midst of mid-term exams, it brought a smile to their faces and we joked about getting dressed up for dinner – in Snuggies.

I love these photos from 1962 State Dinners.  The first with the Kennedy’s and Reza Shah and Queen Farah of Iran, the second with Ivory Coast’s very first first family: Mr. and Mrs. Houphouët-Boigny.

The Kennedy's & Pahlavi's 1962

The Kennedy's & Pahlavi's 1962

Kennedy's & Houphouet-Boigny's 1962

Kennedy's & Houphouet-Boigny's 1962

I could stare for a long time at the elegant gowns that would look fabulous today, and the lovely faces, thinking nostalgically of a simpler time.  It actually was such a complex, transitional time for the entire world, experiencing new revolutions, cries for democracy and radical social changes.  The innocence and glamor in the photos feels almost eerie given the turmoil the countries hosted in both State Dinner photos have experienced (and continue today, 40 years later).

There’s lots to discuss with kids around these photos and experiences:  the dresses, the formality and protocol in such dinners where playing host is an important gesture signaling the respect bestowed from one nation to another (President Bush threw a lunch for the Chinese President and this was considered a re-buff), what’s happening in those countries today, why there has been so much upheaval; or maybe simply look for the Obama’s White House dinner photos and see what’s on the menu.

When Holidays Converge – A Teachable Moment (cross-posted at www.momsrising.org)

Monday, April 5th, 2010

I breathe a sigh of relief today as my children return to school from Spring Break and our routines resume.  Before the hectic pace kicks in, though, it’s worth considering the confluence of events that just took place.  President Obama’s weekly address to the nation recognized this – “to call on people of all faiths and nonbelievers to remember our shared spirit of humanity. All people know the value of work, health, education, and community. This week is a time to be mindful of this common bond which is at the heart of all the world’s great religions.”

The Golden Rule expressed by the world's faithsThe Golden Rule expressed by the world’s faiths

available from interfaithresources.com

I’m struck that the President exhorted Americans this week “to be mindful.”  The big, tough, divisive issues aren’t going away anytime soon.  But as parents who want better for our children, one of the best things we can do is “to be mindful” and try to introduce as much peace in their turbulent lives as we can.  We can talk about the convergence of holidays over the past few days – whether we celebrated an Easter mass, hid plastic eggs, shared a Seder, rejoiced for the final day of eating Matzo, shared a picnic for the last day in the ancient Iranian rite of Spring, cheered at a regatta, survived an earthquake, or dusted off a bicycle.  This conversation recognizes differences.  It also gives a sense of belonging – to a human family.  Talking with our children around concepts that don’t fit so neatly in one little box, but begin to touch on issues like unity, diversity, respect, grace, devotion, and tradition help equip them more capably as actors in a vibrant democracy.  Likewise, exploring The Golden Rule as expressed in various faiths helps show that at the root, we share basic values.  These conversations can help them gain a better sense of their own identity; so questions like “who am I and why am I here?” can be explored by thinking about “who are they and why do they think they are here?”

The convergence of multiple holidays serves as a teachable moment, to launch an on-going exploration of what matters with our kids.  So, take a deep breath, be mindful, and talk about it – even as the busy-ness of life creeps in again.

Awarding Global Citizenship – Obama’s Nobel Peace Prize

Friday, October 9th, 2009
President Obama challenging the UN General Assembly about two weeks ago

President Obama challenging the UN General Assembly about two weeks ago

If the Facebook newsfeed is any gauge of public opinion, even thoughtful Obama voters are left scratching their heads at this year’s Nobel Peace Prize decision.

When the wake-up news from my clock radio told me of the Peace Prize announcement, I uncharacteristically bolted straight up to make sure I was hearing correctly, and not in my usual merging of dreamland with morning news headlines.

Once I realized it wasn’t a dream, I could almost immediately hear the pitch of those Americans-who-hate-Obama-more-than-they-love-America, the kind who applauded in glee when Chicago lost the Olympic bid (not because they cheered for Rio) or drew Hitler mustaches on the Commander-in-Chief.  Were they going to make kabob out of him?  If the world loves him, does that mean they will hate him more?  It must be a sign of too much media ingestion that I thought of those vociferous opinionators, before I considered my OWN thoughts on the matter.  I also hadn’t had my coffee yet.

Those Nobel folks are smart, so what were they thinking?

“Only very rarely has a person to the same extent as Obama captured the world’s attention and given its people hope for a better future,” the committee said in its citation. “His diplomacy is founded in the concept that those who are to lead the world must do so on the basis of values and attitudes that are shared by the majority of the world’s population.”

Thorbjorn Jagland, the chairman of the Norwegian Nobel Committee and a former prime minister of Norway, declared “We are not awarding the prize for what may happen in the future, but for what he has done in the previous year.”… “And who has done more than Barack Obama?”

“We have to get the world on the right track again” … “Look at the level of confrontation we had just a few years ago. Now we get a man who is not only willing but probably able to open dialogue and strengthen international institutions.”

The last sitting American president to win the prize was Woodrow Wilson in 1919.  He has been mocked for what is considered his “failure” of the League of Nations.  But this began a process that at a minimum, got the world’s nations to sit down and talk to each other, and formed what would become the United Nations.  And yes, it’s a flawed institution, but it’s the best we’ve got.  And have you noticed some of the amazing work that has come out of the U.N.?  This is a bit of a raw point for me – after 25 years.  I was asked at a competitive college scholarship interview, “who is a figure in American history that you most admire?”  I was completely unprepared for this question and blurted out “Woodrow Wilson,” for the reasons cited here.  See, I always was a peace-nik.  I literally watched the previously smiling committee members squirm and jot down “No,” or write “X,” before they escorted me out of the room, and I never heard from them again.

This year’s Peace Prize, like so many of the previous winners, represents something much bigger than the man.  (Do you remember anything about the 2008 winner, Finland’s Martti Ahtisaari?)   It goes back to hope, an imperative that we must have peace in the world, and we need to focus on the qualities that can get us there.  Confrontational approaches to international relations are giving way to a reality that our strength comes from cooperation; that big problems like climate change can’t be neatly solved alone, within national boundaries, and we won’t earn respect by bullying others.  Future leaders – our children – can start learning these lessons on the playground or at the dinner table.  How you treat others, the conversations you have, and your comfort with those that are different than you can form the building blocks of a wider, global vision.  Fun, experiential discoveries in our neighborhoods and cities can connect us with the world, whether it’s engaging in various arts or sports, testing new cuisines, or films or languages or ideas, with new friends from many different backgrounds.  We can teach our children that any face can be the face of leadership, of peace and promise – even theirs.  The world just reached out with a hand of friendship – how will we accept it, and what will we learn from it?

Dreams From His Mother

Wednesday, August 19th, 2009

What we can learn from the scholarship of anthropologist Ann Dunham Soetoro, President Obama’s late mother. ”The influence of a global mom on her son – Barack Obama.”

OP-ED piece, New York Times by Michael R. Dove

PRESIDENT OBAMA’s late mother, Ann Dunham Soetoro, was famous for the good cheer and optimism that she preserved in the face of a complex and challenging world. Her personality went hand-in-hand with her career as an anthropologist in Indonesia and Pakistan, where she studied and worked with village craftsmen, slum-dwellers and countless others. I knew Dr. Soetoro as a friend and colleague for many years before her death from cancer in 1995. Though I only met her son once, briefly at her memorial service, I’ve watched him as he’s taken on the hardest job in the world, and often found myself wondering how her worldview might have shaped him.

Dr. Soetoro’s most sustained academic effort was her 1,043-page dissertation, “Peasant Blacksmithing in Indonesia: Surviving Against All Odds,” completed in 1992 and based on 14 years of research. This was a classic, in-depth, on-the-ground anthropological study of a 1,200-year-old industry. Her principal field site was a cluster of hamlets, containing several hundred households, on an arid limestone plateau on Java’s south coast. There, village metalworkers produced dozens of different iron blades and tools for use in farming, carpentry and daily life.

When Dr. Soetoro began her study in 1977, the village could be reached only by walking a mile and a half from the nearest paved road. The first battery-powered television set did not arrive in the village until 1978, and was placed in a window and watched by the village en masse; electricity did not arrive until a decade later. In her dissertation, Dr. Soetoro called this village “a wonderful and mysterious place to live.”

Running through Dr. Soetoro’s doctoral research, as through all her work, was a challenge to popular perceptions regarding economically and politically marginalized groups; she showed that the people at society’s edges were not as different from the rest of us as is often supposed. Dr. Soetoro was also critical of the pernicious notion that the roots of poverty lie with the poor themselves and that cultural differences are responsible for the gap between less-developed countries and the industrialized West.

Indeed, Dr. Soetoro found that the villagers she studied in Central Java had many of the same economic needs, beliefs and aspirations as the most capitalist of Westerners. Village craftsmen were “keenly interested in profits,” she wrote, and entrepreneurship was “in plentiful supply in rural Indonesia,” having been “part of the traditional culture” there for a millennium.

Based on these observations, Dr. Soetoro concluded that underdevelopment in these communities resulted from a scarcity of capital, the allocation of which was a matter of politics, not culture. Antipoverty programs that ignored this reality had the potential, perversely, of exacerbating inequality because they would only reinforce the power of elites. As she wrote in her dissertation, “many government programs inadvertently foster stratification by channeling resources through village officials,” who then used the money to further strengthen their own status.

These same observations also led her to start working with institutions like the Ford Foundation and the United States Agency for International Development to devise alternate pathways for reaching and working with the poor. She helped to pioneer microcredit programs that made small amounts of capital available to weavers, blacksmiths and other low-income groups — people who would otherwise have had no access to credit.

It’s worth pointing out that though microenterprise is fairly well-known today — and Indonesia now has one of the world’s largest microcredit programs — it was pretty radical stuff when Ann Soetoro was doing her work. But then, she had a habit of swimming against the current. While many American academics tried to avoid antagonizing the repressive Suharto government, Ann Soetoro called attention to those the regime had failed to benefit: the village craftsmen, the plantation workers and urban scavengers, the underpaid workers in the shoe and clothing factories.

There is a final lesson from her work that is worth remembering: No nation — even if it is our bitterest enemy — is incomprehensible. Anthropology shows that people who seem very different from us behave according to systems of logic, and that these systems can be grasped if we approach them with the sort of patience and respect that Dr. Soetoro practiced in her work.

The anthropologist Clifford Geertz wrote that “the aim of anthropology is the enlargement of the universe of human discourse.” This was clearly a central goal of Dr. Soetoro’s work and life. From an admittedly great distance, I can see those same values in her son.